The many selves in the relationship

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Each of us is made up of numerous aspects , or selves , which can be the most diverse: protective or aggressive, responsible or irresponsible, altruistic or needy, generous or greedy, inclined to control or suffer, autonomous or independent, self-confident or fragile , encouraging or judgmental, reliable or unreliable… there are all possibilities and all are in each of us.